November 27, 2009

Redecorate, Reorganize and Repurpose Without Blowing the Budget

I think I’m nesting, but not in the usual way. While I am anticipating the arrival of a long-awaited creation, it’s of the couch variety, not the babe. I’ve been all a flutter moving things from here to there, rearranging, and repurposing. It’s great fun, but experience has taught me that the path to organization is rarely linear. My “cleaning” involves a lot of collateral mess. My husband has learned to accept this little eccentricity and now only on occasion, having surveyed my progress, raises an eyebrow when I shout over a pile (that was previously clear floor space) that, “I’m cleaning!”

This week lent itself to taking a long, hard look at our parenting obstacles. The biggest challenge to address, we felt, was that darned TV and DVD player. Yes, I know I said I was going to remove it again, but I didn’t. I came up with the idea for “Film Festival Friday” and thought we could manage the distraction the rest of the week. I think we could have, expect that Swine Flu hit and movies became management tool numero uno. And then came the spiral. I’ll post more on the whole TV debacle when I get the chance.

So, if you don’t have a television set, you have little use for an entertainment armoire. Poof. Gone. Repurpose. Let the organization begin. And we did.

The armoire is now my new craft center in the office. My old craft center, a dumpster diving rescue piece, became my new storage room shelves. I needed shelves, because the bookcases I shoved in my storage closet when we moved into the house several years ago, just relocated to my living room to flank my fireplace (which, by the way, I was only able to do now that the armoire had a new home). From there I moved paintings and collected treasures around until it felt good enough for now.

Prior to all this rearranging, I had been drooling over a set of IKEA bookcases. I wanted to live among our books. As it was, our collection was closed off and out of reach. The purchase of something new was out of the question, but it didn’t stop me from creating a design plan that included said bookcases. It’s a good thing I saved the money I never had to spend, because it turns out a better solution was right under my nose…er stuffed in my closet. My forgotten shelves, so long ago put inside the closet, are a pretty satisfactory substitute.

The repurposing of the bookcases set into motion all the moving and shaking I mentioned earlier. It always amazes me how simple solutions, to seemingly expensive “problems,” bubble up to the surface when I allow the time and space for it to happen. If unlimited resources were at my disposal, I wonder, would it impact my creativity? If I could snap my fingers and manufacture instant solutions would I ever risk immediate gratification for a gamble outside the box? I suppose one could argue that such luxuries might boost creativity, what with more time to devote to my craft and less spent worrying about making ends meet, the must-have nanny to entertain the children, Alice from The Brady Bunch to cook and clean and any other conveniences I deemed worthy of a few bucks. Would I have bothered to collect the mossy branches, victims of a recent wind storm? Had I not, I wouldn’t have the cool new arrangement to sit on top of those bookcases I was so anxious to move. I also wouldn’t have figured out where the chairs, which I have yet to purchase (yes, those are our camping chairs in the photo of the living room), would go when the much-anticipated couch finally arrives. I wonder if I’d still get all nesty and industrious?

I exaggerate not at all when I say that one choice leads to another, that the path to organization requires a few steps backward and that inspiration comes from the brush pile your husband would rather not see in the middle of the front lawn. And all this because of a couch? Yes, and to make a point. Anyone can organize or decorate on a shoestring. It’s quite likely you already have everything you need stuffed in a closet waiting to be repurposed.

Also,  I finally finish my cafe curtains and valance.

November 26, 2009

A Mission for Tradition

“How wonderful it would be if we could help our children and grandchildren to learn thanksgiving at an early age. Thanksgiving opens the doors. It changes a child’s personality. A child is resentful, negative, or thankful. Thankful children want to give, they radiate happiness, they draw people.” ~ Sir John Templeton

At the risk of sounding trite, I have to say that the best things in life truly are free. I felt this whole heartedly last night as we anticipated our thanksgiving celebration.

We started a new family tradition- a thankful list. The inspiration came from my friend Stacee who posted a link to her family’s list on Facebook.  It was heartwarming and hilarious. I was curious as to what my own children would put on such a list, so I asked. What began as an informal conversation turned into a treasured collection, neatly recorded on the hard drive of my computer. I didn’t plan to write it all down, but some things demand documentation. As you might imagine, my computer was in reach, so it wasn’t hard to do. Following the acknowledgement of our thanks, and totally unplanned, we danced and sang by firelight. The kids stayed up far past their bedtime; I can’t recall another time when I felt so full of peace and contentment.

I think we will compile a list each year on the eve of thanksgiving. Perhaps we’ll even sing and dance again too. I can imagine us making a list in 2010 and the years that follow and then looking back at lists of yore. Wouldn’t it be fun to someday present a bound collection of a lifetime of “I am thankful lists” to an adult child?

Here is our list: 2009 I am Thankful…

For my friend Lane (Nolan)

For mittens and gloves for snow (Nolan)

For maps and couches (Nolan)

For dinosaur balls (Nolan)

For Grandma Diamond, Grandma Sue, Grandpa Gregg, Grandpa Sheesh, Dom, Auntie Kelly, Uncle Brian, and the other Uncle Brian, Great Grandma Baker, Great Grandma Kay, Mae Mae

For people with heads on (Nolan)

For popcorn (Laurel)

For fabric (Nolan)

For fireplaces (Nolan)

For cups and milk (Nolan)

For thankful for more things than you [points at mommy] thought (Nolan)

For signs (Nolan)

For garages (Nolan)

For videos and toys (Nolan and Laurel)

For letters and numbers (Nolan)

For water (Nolan)

For Zimbos (Laurel)

“I’m thankful for my hair and ears.” (Nolan)

“I’m thankful for books also.” (Nolan)

“I’m thankful for the lady getting a big, big face in the Far Side book.” (Nolan)

“My now healthy family.” (Mitch)

“My new column.” (Emily)

For couches (Mitch) [We have been without proper seating in our living room since September.]

For books (Laurel)

For my wonderful husband

For “Gumma” (Laurel)

“Dom with gum in his mouth.” (Laurel)

For Wolf (Laurel)[She has been chasing around an imaginary wolf lately. Apparently, it likes to roam around upstairs.]

“A monkey on a tree and an elephant.” (Laurel)

I love traditions. Also new this year (starting today)  is the tradition of the Christmas book. On thanksgiving day, we will give the children a holiday related book. This year it was Dick and Jane: A Christmas Story. I wish I could say I had some profound reason for selecting this book, but alas, all I can tell you is that it was on sale and I liked the pictures. Next year though, my selection will be steeped in meaning.

Originally, I thought I would give the Christmas book at Christmas, but I like the idea of the kids reading and enjoying it before the holiday. It should be a fun way to set the mood, generate conversations and build excitement for the big day.

What are your holiday traditions, thanksgiving, Christmas or otherwise? I’d love to hear what you do.

November 26, 2009

Hello Crafts and Goodbye Swine

Last weekend on Prairie Home Companion, Garrison Keillor sang a song about the Swine Flu. I laughed, but only because we are now on the other side of a month-and-a-half long bout with the snout. Oink. Oh sense of humor, you don’t know how I’ve missed you.

You see, I like schedules. Give me perimeters and a happy woman I will be. Please don’t misunderstand though, while I like predictable routines, and daily plans, I do not confine myself  to their borders. What  fun is a fence if you never chance to climb it?

It’s been oil and water at my house, illness and routine separate quickly when mixed. Try lugging two toddlers and a bed ridden husband over the proverbial white pickets though and if you’re like me, you’ll be begging for any semblance of a normal routine- a fence post to hold you up at the end of the day. Thank goodness we’ve finally found our rhythm again. In fact, we had our wits enough to try a “new to us” frugal fall craft. Thanks My Little Hen for the waxed paper leaves inspiration. The folks over at Frugal Family Fun Blog took the idea a bit further and sewed together their  leaf creations to make a beautiful fall garland. While this sounded fun, it’s all about baby steps right now; I’m just happy we DID something…anything…for Wee Craft Wednesday.

Waxed Paper Leaves

1. Collect leaves, but be open to other bits of nature that find their way into your bundle.

2. Arrange leaves on waxed paper.

3. For a bit of pizzazz, add crayon shavings to your design.

4. Place a few sheet of newspaper over the waxed paper and press with a hot iron. Wait for wax to melt.

5. Place creations in a window.